Monday, February 8, 2010

So sad.

My Colts lost last night.

It was not for lack of fan effort on my part.

                                                                            



Or on my mom's part.  


Please excuse the complete exhaustion on my face. (And the rat face in the picture at the bottom.) 


So, there you go. As promised. Blue hair.

Now I have to work :) 


Sunday, January 31, 2010

I've MISSED you!

And I should totally be working right this very minute. I have things to do that I've not been able to finish at the office, so I brought them home with me tonight. But, as a reward for getting a large part of it done so far, I'm taking a bloggy break!

I'm still sifting through my google reader to see what I can see.
To see what I can see.
(Slight break for song. That happens this time of year, as my brain has hit the point where it is melting out of my left ear.)

I figure it will take a bit of time to get caught back up. I have 232 posts in my "inbox" yet to skim. And eventually, I'm going to have to go back to this work thing, preferably before I pass completely out.

In the interim, in the event you don't follow me on twitter (link on the right!), this week you've missed my RAWRs, celebrations of nights leaving BEFORE midnight, and the occasional OMYGREATGOOGLIMOOGLY! (Hi Kate!) 

This two week window of time, it's our busiest time of the entire year. Everyone's forms are coming in, and people want money. You know, yesterday! I've been at one of our local radio stations twice this week, I've been at the office until as late as 12:30 am, and I'm pretty sure at one point I was up to 4 bum printers. I was SO excited to leave the office today at about 7:30, and that was after being able to sleep in a bit. (Church doesn't start until 10, I finally crawled from my bed at 8:30. Normal start time for the day is about 7, so this was nice.) 

In the meantime, I wanted to reassure you all that I live on, in whatever highly stressed version I'm operating on. I'm holding out hope that next Sunday will go quickly, and we will be able to lock up right at 5, so I can hightail it to my house for some serious football. Go COLTS!

And I have to find a minute to go grab the hair dye, but I will certainly post the pictures when it happens. When our Colts went to the Super Bowl in 2007, I dyed my hair blue. Unfortunately, I developed a case of pneumonia that same week, was nearly hospitalized after being rushed by ambulance from the urgent care clinic to the ER, and was ordered by husband, physician, and employer to keep my butt in bed for several days. (And was sick enough to listen.) As a result, the only picture I ended up with from that time is not fit for public viewing, so I vow to get some serious Believe in Blue pictures in place ASAP!

Ok, I've officially ignored the awaiting work for as long as I can. But fear not - this week has also brought on some EXCEPTIONAL blog fodder. And I took pictures. I just have to find the time to put it all together and truly give it justice. For it was TRULY exceptional. I can't wait to get to share it.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Getting To Know YOU!

Ugh! I am hating that I can't get on and post more often!

I keep telling myself, just a few weeks of the insanity, then things will level out. But today - it was busy at work! My fab BFF Elizabeth made the sacrifice to stay while the last office finished up for the night, letting me and my mom make a break for my house, the TV, and the Colts announcers. (For whatever reason, radio reception in my office is NOT GOOD! I finally found the game on an AM broadcast, but had to listen to Jets announcers! UGH!)

But, it's Sunday, and that means it's time for Keely @ MannLand5's Getting to Know YOU!



Lots of bloggy fun - just answer the questions, then head to Keely's place and link up!

The questions..

1. Waffles, pancakes or french toast?
2. Dream home..What would it look like?
3. Favorite sport to watch during the Winter Olympics?
4. The first word that comes to mind when describing yourself?
5. Dresses, pants (jeans, leggings, etc.) or skirts?
6. What is your favorite time of day?
7. Beach or Mountains..which do you prefer?
8.Will you watch the Super Bowl?

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1. Waffles, pancakes or french toast?

Yes. Seriously, I love me some food, and sweet breakfast foods are a total favorite. In an interesting twist, however, I rarely eat them first thing in the morning. I'm not a breakfast person. Eating before at least 10am makes Megan a mean girl. Coffee is a requirement ASAP, though!

2. Dream home..What would it look like?

Can we please just ensure whatever it is, it comes with her?

I'm not super picky - I like big open spaces, plenty of land, and room for entertaining. I LOVE having my family and friends over. ALL.THE.TIME. I want a large sweeping porch, expansive patios and deck spaces, and counter space in the kitchen for spreading out lots of food. Almost everything else is pretty negotiable.

3. Favorite sport to watch during the Winter Olympics?

Honestly, for the sports person that I am, I'm not really into a lot of the winter sports. I used to watch the figure skating as a kid. Then, my brother and I decided to try it. With sock on a wood floor. He dropped me - on my face. No longer a fan.
I do watch the speed skating some, but really, the Winter Games happen during tax season. TV doesn't happen much.

4. The first word that comes to mind when describing yourself?

Enthusiastic.

I don't do much of anything without being.. animated about it. Perhaps animated is a better word, but you wanted the first one, so I'm gonna leave enthusiastic.

5. Dresses, pants (jeans, leggings, etc.) or skirts?

Pants. Jeans if I'm being specific, but pants. Kind of goes back to that enthusiastic thing. At work, I may be crawling on the floor or standing on a ladder or desk. These are not skirt or dress moments. And I'll be honest - skirts and dresses require regular shaving!

6. What is your favorite time of day?

The one that coincides with the first sip of the first hot cup of coffee. It's at that moment the tension literally melts away for just a second, and I know that I am about to feel like a normal human being.

Yes. I have a serious addiction to coffee. I drink it hot, black, and strong. And by the pot full. This time of year, I will drink two or three pots a day.

7. Beach or Mountains..which do you prefer?

Oh, this one is HARD. I like peace and quiet on vacations - it's hard to find that at most beaches, but I've encountered a few where they are like a slice of heaven. I love a crisp fall morning on a mountainside, too though. I think I have to go with beach on this one, though. But it's a tight competition.

8.Will you watch the Super Bowl?

Um, yes. I live less than an hour from Indianapolis. I love me some Colts. And today was a good day for us!  Even if it wasn't the Colts, I love me some football, so I'd be watching! (And right this very moment, I'm watching to see who we'll play - we've just gone to overtime in this Saints/Vikes game!)

Ok - now we want to know your answers! Won't you please play along?

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Working Mommy Wednesdays



Ahhh, it's a quiet night, the office is closed, the doors are locked, and I'm running some reports before heading home for the night. (Well, before heading to the grocery store before heading home for the night.) 

And I NEVER get to play along with the lovely Julia! (Or at least not often enough!) But tonight- ahhh! Tonight is different.

Tonight, I have a few moment to post a Working Mom Wednesday post!

Or. I did. Just got a memo from the hubs that M is in the tub, having thrown up all over her bed.

*sigh*

So, since I still have to finish this last run of info, this is going to be slightly quicker than originally anticipated.

Julia wants to know: 

As a working mom, if you suddenly became a SAHM, how do you think your life would be different? 

Ohmygosh, how WOULDN'T it be different!? I have so much respect for stay at home moms. I can  safely say that, for me, being a stay at home mom would be exceptionally hard. Honestly, there are days when I'm not sure I'm cut out to be a mom at all. I love my kids, don't get me wrong, but I get so much personal fulfillment from my work life too!

I'm going to go out on a limb on this one, I guess. I have to assume that some financial windfall has made this possible, first off, so let's say money is not an issue. 

We'd do a LOT of cool stuff - I am blessed to be surrounded by some amazing places. Indianapolis is host to arts festivals, a fantastic zoo, a top-rated children's museum, and so much cultural stuff it boggles my mind. Even closer to home, we have a hands-on science exploration museum here, plus as the home of a major big Ten university, we bring in a number of arts, entertainment and cultural events locally as well. So, "field trips" would be big for us.

My children are all school aged, I'd spend more time volunteering at school. I'd be better about my involvement with the PTO. My children might be more involved (if they so chose) in extra-curricular activities like sports. 

I took a Wilton's class this last fall for cake decorating, and I loved it. I might take more of those, play with that more. My house MIGHT be more organized/cleaner. Or, more realistically, it might be a bigger disaster since we'd be home doing stuff more! But, hopefully at least the little stuff like laundry and dishes would be more caught up.

That's a lie. No, there would be more cooking and such. Dishes would never be caught up. Ever. Just like now. I'm guessing laundry too.

Ok - my last report is done, and that about covers my immediate thoughts. I'm off to tend to the post-vomit laundry that awaits. (After, of course, the stop at the store!)

I'd love to know what you think would be different for you if you were thrown into either the SAHM or WM role! Please share, and be sure to visit http://sweetaspunkinpie.blogspot.com/ and link up!




Dreams

On Monday, I shared the transcript from Dr. King's famous I Have A Dream speech.

It got me thinking - we ALL have dreams. Wishes. Desires. Some are big dreams, like Dr. King. Others are more personal, but as monumental for us.

There are the obvious ones - we dream of raising children who are happy and healthy. We dream that they will be successful. We dream that they will live to a ripe old age, and give us grandchildren, and leave the world a slightly better place than it was prior to their arrival.

We dream of vacations in sunny climes, or snowy ones, or spa-filled ones. We dream of a better job, or having no need to HAVE a job other than parenting. We dream of a bigger home, or a few more hours to sleep, or 5 minutes of peace and quiet.

For me? I have dreams.

I dream of owning the company where I work. I dream, not of riches, but of less struggle. Of more financial stability.

I dream of confidence. Not in myself, but in those around me. I want to trust that they can do what is asked of them, and be allowed to do more. I want to be able to let go more, and accept the offers of help. I want to relax and know that I don't have to do  it all.

I dream of philanthropy. I have so much "Give" in my heart, but not enough in my wallet. I want to push harder to find cures, and even preventative solutions for children fighting pediatric cancers. I want to know that the long-term side effects of treatment options are not worse than the illness itself.

I dream of peace in my heart, and contentment with who and where I am in my life. I know that I've been placed right here, right now, for a reason. I struggle with wanting to know that reason, and I fight against where I am all to often. This doesn't mean that I don't want to move ahead - more often it means I need to stop fighting so hard to stay where I am.

Then, there are the days that I just dream of a solid nights sleep, or that vacation (I like the warm ones!), or 3 minutes to myself without someone tattling on someone else. The days when I dream that my kids will get along for 24 solid hours. That they'll all three do their homework without any fighting. That the laundry will fold itself, and magically float off to the dressers. That the dishes will be clean, and a hot meal waiting.

I want absolutely everything for my kids. Health, happiness, solid educations, loving partners in life, careers that they love, you name it, I want them to have it. But I want them to work for it. I want them to have those things, but I want them to also have respect for them. I want them to know how hard you have to work to earn those things. I don't ever want them handed to them on a platter.

What about you? What are you dreaming of these days?

Monday, January 18, 2010

I have a dream

It's Martin Luther King, Junior Day.

My children are adorable - this morning, as we were getting ready for our day, they broke out in a round of Happy Birthday to Dr. King. It made me smile.

In honor of the day, I link you to American Rhetoric, where you may view video of Dr. King making his famous "I have a Dream" speech. They have the full transcript of the speech, which I have copied for you below.

I am thankful that I live in a country where we are allowed to have dreams. Where we are allowed to share them. I am proud to live in a country where things like donations to the Red Cross can go "viral" after countries face devastating events like the recent earthquake in Haiti (as of this posting, texting Haiti to 90999 would allow you to make a $10 donation to the Red Cross, and over $21 million has been raised this way. Source: CNN)

I'm thankful that I can raise my kids, telling them that they too can have a dream. And that if they want it bad enough, the only thing that can hold them back is them. Later this week, I'll share some of my dreams with you. For today, enjoy the words below, or click the link at the bottom to view video and/or hear audio.

Transcript of the speech of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., from August 28th, 1963. 


I Have A Dream




I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.
Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.
But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we've come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.
In a sense we've come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the "unalienable Rights" of "Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked "insufficient funds."
But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so, we've come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.
We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.
It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. And those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. And there will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.
But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.
The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom.
We cannot walk alone.
And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead.
We cannot turn back.
There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, "When will you be satisfied?" We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating: "For Whites Only." We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until "justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream."¹
I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from areas where your quest -- quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.
Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.
And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.
I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal."
I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.
I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.
I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.
I have a dream today!
I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of "interposition" and "nullification" -- one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.
I have a dream today!
I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; "and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together."2
This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.
With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.
And this will be the day -- this will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning:
My country 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing.
Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim's pride,
From every mountainside, let freedom ring!
And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true.
And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.
Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.
Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania.
Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado.
Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.
But not only that:
Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.
Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.
Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi.
From every mountainside, let freedom ring.
And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:
                Free at last! Free at last!
                Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!







Sunday, January 17, 2010

A not so cheating post of random thoughts and rambling

I've been so super lazy today.

I have a good reason.

Today is my last day off for at least a month. Starting tomorrow, I will be working all seven days of the week. We anticipate that lasting at least to Valentine's Day, after that, Sundays will be by appointment only, but we have a number of clients who need/request Sundays, so I dare say we'll see at least a few.

Most of my last several posts have been tied in to some of the wonderful blog hops some of the girls are doing. I love them, as they give me a chance to still pop in, keep up, and prove to myself that there is life outside of tax season. I figured, however, that today was my big chance to just write again for a few!

I really haven't been that lazy - the bonus kids spent the night and I stayed up late cheering for my Colts last night. Then I was up much of the night because E's dreadful tooth started bothering him again. We made a big pot of potato soup today, I talked to the dentist and got a new prescription for E called in, we got a fair amount of general cleaning done, and Big Daddy and the kids are reading their second chapter of Harry Potter of the day while I relax. My Hoosiers pulled out a win in overtime. Overall, today has been a very agreeable day.

When I called the "emergency" number for the dentist, I actually spoke with a different dentist from the office where I took E. I had to leave a message initially, and I *might* have come across as a bit short in my message. I mentioned that I'd been in with him a the week before the week of Christmas, and that they couldn't get him in until the end of January for the extraction. He talked like he really wants to try to get him in this week, if we can do it. The good news was that I had J in at the pediatricians office earlier this week where he was diagnosed with a sinus infection. They had prescribed a bottle of the beloved "pink stuff" for J, and when E started hurting last night, I gave him a dose right off, as well as a second one this morning. (Yes, I know, I shouldn't give the medications prescribed for one child to another child. Call CPS. You should have seen that baby's face. I had to do something. I assure you, no jury of my peers would convict me.) Anyway, I'm feeling hopeful that they can get him in, but at this point, I have enough antibiotic to get us through the scheduled extraction, so if they can't pull it earlier, at least I can keep the pain at bay for E.

Kris Ann, the lovely mommy who won the Alex and the Amazing Lemonade Stand giveaway received her book, and wrote a beautiful piece about it- you should go check it out! I'm SO happy that your boys liked it, Kris Ann! Thank you again!

At the end of this month is our local St. Jude Country Cares RadioThon - we always take part in it, and this year, my boss is letting me step up our support. I LOVE getting to be a part of these events, and am so blessed to be able to help where I can. And this same station is a huge blessing to me when I do our lemonade stand in the summer. I hope to one day soon be able to stop being part of these events - not because I don't want to do them, but because I don't want to NEED them. Until that day comes, however, you better believe that I'll be right there, fighting for a cure for our kids.

While I'm sure there are 101 other things I could rattle on about, I'm off to go visit some of YOU and see what all you've been up to! Much love to ya!
 

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